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Children need to be guided: he knows what is best for him. The authority, which is what allows the child to assimilate the fundamental prohibitions related to socialization. Frustration is a necessary experience in child development : to live in society, he must learn to forego immediate satisfaction of all his desires. should also keep in mind that love and authority are consistent : the one derived from the other. Indeed, it is because you love your child you set him banned for his safety and well-being. Put barriers in the way of the child, it is also helping to move: a marked path is reassuring, the child will gain confidence and be better prepared for independence. Without authority, the child may feel neglected, abandoned. How to exercise its authority? The essential ingredient of authority is communication : an outright ban, without explanation, has no meaning for the child, it is unnecessary and even harmful. It is important to clearly explain simply why you forbid your child certain things. It is also important that parents agree among themselves whether the child hears “yes” on one side, and “no” on the other, he never obey and will soon play on your disagreement. Also in this consistency, authority implies that yourself, parents, you apply the rules imposed on your child. Do not forget, you are a role model for him . However, it is important to leave a margin of action for the child – safely of course: that’s what Dolto called “risk-taking”. Do not frustrate the child growing number of prohibitions throughout the day: the child must be able to form their own experience. The failure also has educational value. Finally, we must not confuse authority with authoritarianism. You become overbearing if you inhale a sense of fear in the child, if your instructions are issued so illogical, if they are unjust, if you deny childhood any expression of moods or states of mind. Read the rest of this entry »
What is it?
The breast milk is a device that allows you to extract the milk of a nursing woman. There are two kinds: manual pump and electric pump. The manual pump is easier to use, unobtrusive, lightweight and … less noisy than the electric pump. You can use it almost anywhere. However, it is a bit more tiring to use since you have to pump the milk by hand. The electric breastpump is faster, more relaxing and more efficient to use for lactation. If you have little time or little patience, this may be the solution to which you must turn. Petit downside: you can not use it anywhere because you have to be near a electrical outlet. His most: the electric pump is available in a version with double pumping. It collects milk from both breasts simultaneously allowing a real time saver. There are small, painless and almost silent! Besides breast milk, will you get plastic bags and tongs closure to store and use your milk later in the best conditions. then you choose your breast milk according to your needs Read the rest of this entry »
Breakfast always and completely as possible.
Limit precooked , processed foods and fast foods (burgers, pizzas …), they contain more saturated fat, sugars and salt.
If the child refuses a food, it should not be forced to take it . Children decide whether or not to eat, and the amount taken. Parents decide the type, quality and variety of food.
No food should be prohibited, unless the child is allergic or have intolerance to it. Children should allow them occasionally whims. Not bad to eat chocolate occasionally. The prohibition of certain foods (sweets, soft drinks, hamburgers …) can attract the child’s attention to them and make them look more attractive and desirable. Read the rest of this entry »
When a child refuses to eat , it is always scary for parents. Much to say right now, pediatricians are unanimous on the fact that the best solution is to do as little as possible. But it is not always easy. Here are 6 tips that can help you.
1) Understand that context plays a lot
There are many perfectly legitimate reasons why one child may refuse a meal , even repeatedly:
His meals precedent is too rich.
He eats too much between meals.
It is stressed or tired at night for example.
It passes through a period where he grew less and less need to eat.
Raise all doubts before you say your child “difficult” or worse, he or she “has a problem with food . ” Read the rest of this entry »
How does the nursery parenting?
Parents commit at least half a day per week in the care of children. They are assisted by professional permanent childhood qualified employees of the crib. Two adults, a permanent graduate, must be present at all times. It is mandatory to have the presence of a person for five children who do not work, and one of eight children walking. Finally a doctor is “attached” to the nursery . parents are asked to participate in the running of the creche (management, administration, cash management, equipment maintenance …). Meetings are held regularly. And every month, a schedule is completed to determine the presence of parents. Read the rest of this entry »
1 Parents are those who control the supply lines. ‘s you who decide what foods are purchased at home and when served. Although it is expected that the children can give their parents to let them eat less nutritious foods, it is adults who decide what food come home. Children will not be left hungry because at home there what they most want to eat. They will eat whatever is in the cupboards and the fridge. If your child’s favorite snack is nothing nutritious, still and all, you can buy it from time to time to not gorged on the food as soon falls into their hands. Read the rest of this entry »
All babies cry, especially during the first weeks of life. They cry when they need something, but does not always mean something is wrong.
Sometimes it may be obvious why the baby cries, for example, that changing diapers or feeding. Other times, it may be difficult to know what’s wrong. Find out why the baby is crying is often a matter of looking at all the possibilities.
A crying baby can be stressful and not sleeping well. It is very important to take breaks if you have a baby who continues to mourn.
If the way to mourn the baby is abnormal for some reason (it is very acute, or whines), shall consult with the doctor and that sometimes can be a sign that the baby is not well. Read the rest of this entry »
The child needs to be guided: it ignores what is best for him. The authority is what allows the child to assimilate the fundamental prohibitions related to social development. Frustration is a necessary experience in the development of the child to live in society, he must learn to forego the immediate gratification of his desires.
It should also keep in mind that love and authority are consistent: the same result one of the other. Indeed, it is because you love your child that you fasten the prohibitions, for his safety and well-being. Put up barriers on the way to the child, but also help to advance: a marked path is reassuring, the child will gain confidence and be better prepared for independence. Without authority, the child may also feel neglected, abandoned. Read the rest of this entry »
The nursery or the nursery is a parental mini crib collective created, organized and run by parents grouped under a 1901 law association. Parents and volunteers will even pay for the care of their children. It accommodates up to 16 to 20 children from the age of three months to four years. It is approved by the Dean of Social Department and must receive approval from the Maternal and Child Health (MCH) which controls the premises and compliance with hygiene recommendations. An educational project should be defined. Schedules are also governed by the Rules of the crib. Read the rest of this entry »
Prepare the baby’s room is exciting for parents, this piece embodies the presence of the baby before birth. But beyond aesthetics, it is important to take into account several parameters. The baby’s room is contributing to its development limit the risks and attacks that may affect their well-being, and finally be functional. Close to the parents’ room, away from the noisy parts of the house, sunny (facing southeast to southwest), as is its location. Read the rest of this entry »